Practices
before you ask anything of yourself
- Begin with the floor.
Put your attention into the place where your feet meet the ground. Let that contact be enough for one breath.
- Soften the signal.
Unclench your jaw. Open your hands. Let the body know this is not an emergency.
long enough for authorship to return
- Step out of the pattern.
Feel the impulse to continue automatically. Let it pause long enough for authorship to return.
- Come back before the story.
Feel the body before you explain the body. Let sensation arrive without becoming a verdict.
you are not only inside your thoughts
- Feel the space between.
Choose one object in view. Feel the space between you and it without needing to think about it.
- Widen the room.
Let your attention include the walls, the air, and the distance around you. You are not only inside your thoughts.
gratitude that finds its own object
- Let gratitude find its object.
Keep the words thank you simple. When one true thing appears, hold it gently.
- Thank the next honest action.
Let gratitude point toward one action that would make today more true.
bring it back without scolding it
- Check the pocket.
Ask quietly: am I in the state I think I am in? Let the body answer before the mind explains.
- Let the lost part be found.
Notice the part of you that wandered. Bring it back without scolding it.
where attention goes, the self starts to move
- Notice the pull of attention.
Where attention goes, the self starts to move. Notice the pull before you follow it.
- Find the warmer source.
Look for the direction that feels rooted in care rather than fear. Let the body notice the difference.
the familiar path is also a wager
- Notice where the chips are going.
Your time is already being placed somewhere. See where it is going before you choose again.
- See the quiet wager.
The familiar path is also a bet. Let yourself see the bet without judging it.